What does communion mean to you? How does communing with the Lord change you? 

Communion is the final word that I want to respond to from the book The Broken Way. The Lord has used this word to impact my heart deeply, He has helped me to realize so much about my relationship with Him, where I am and where I want to be. I hope that you will find a part of my journey that you can relate to and that it will touch your heart in special way, leading you to desire the Lord more. 

To commune is defined as to “share one’s intimate thoughts or feelings with (someone) especially on a spiritual level.” It goes on to say that”the purpose of praying is to commune with God” (Oxford Dictionary). defines commune as “to converse or talk together with profound intensity, intimacy etc.”

I like using the word commune as a verb in connection to prayer and relationship with the Lord. We receive communion in church as part of the service, and we are told to do this “in remembrance of Him”.

Ann Voskamp shares in her book that the act of a Jewish man asking a woman to marry him, and the act of receiving communion mirror each other. She explains that in communion the Lord is asking for our union with Him and in marriage a man asks to be united with a woman.

As I was praying and reading the Scriptures today, the Lord has shown me how I am “prone to wander.”  In Jeremiah 2:34b, the Lord says “…my people have forgotten me days without number.” Reading this made do a personal inventory of my time with the Lord. I thought, no, I haven’t forgotten Him, but the Lord made it clear to me how all too often I just go through the motions but don’t open my heart to really commune with Him.

My word for the year 2017 is “yield” , but I struggle to yield. I instead find myself distracted, or busy and not surrendered as I want to be. I spoke to the Lord telling Him that I need to find balance, and the words were barely out of my mouth, when Matthew 6:33 came to my mind. “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things will be added to you.” “All these things”, all the things I am preoccupied with, worrying about, busy with or tending to, He will take care of. All that I need. He will supply. I only need to seek Him.

I wanted to argue and say, “but it’s not that easy.” And then I was reminded that it was only this morning that I learned the word “delight”  in Psalm 37:4 “Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart” comes from a Hebrew word with the root word meaning soft, pliable, or moldable. And there I was, back at yielding. Communing with Him, seeking Him, delighting in Him is all about yielding to Him and when I do He will change the desires of my heart so that they are aligned with His will. He will add all the things I need or desire accordingly.

No, He is not going to give me whatever I wish like a magic genie. He is going to take my heart and work in it to find the reality of my deepest need in that desire and as He meets me in that I will find that I am always satisfied in Him.

The emptiness within is not calling out for more to do, or more busyness, or more stuff. It is a yearning for HIm that is often filled temporarily in an unsatisfying way with the things of this world.

Our Heavenly Father knows what we need, and because of His love for us He wants us to seek Him so the need can be met according to His perfect will.  He doesn’t want us trying to find what we need in things that will never satisfy.

Isaiah 55 2 “Why spend money on what is not bread and your labor on what does not satisfy? Listen, listen to me and eat what is good and you will delight in the richest of fare.

He knows our hearts yearn for deep communion with Him. He has what is good. He knows what satisfies. He can delight us with “the richest of fare.” The road to communion, truly as Ann says, is the broken way.

As we come into the presence of His holiness we weep in knowing more of our brokenness, but then, as we are led into communion with Him, we find the abundance that satisfies the desires of our hearts.

Our brokenness can lead us on many rabbit trails, but only in the Lord will we find our hearts healed, our needs met, our desires satisfied, all according to His perfect wisdom and will. Life is not perfect, but the Lord and His will are, and that makes life here on this earth worth it all.

I came away from my time with the Lord feeling a deeper yearning for more, for more of Him, for greater intimacy with Him, for Him to lead me deeper and deeper in understanding of His Word and in knowing Him.

He wants us to commune with Him, to be in union, and yield to, and find delight in Him. He longs for and waits for us to bring our brokenness to Him everyday, moment-by-moment. He wants to meet with us and intimately hold our broken pieces as we share them with Him.

I came away wondering why do I so often resist Him and end up choosing something less satisfying?

What is He calling you to?

Will you go and commune with Him?

Will you bring your brokenness and look at it with Him?

You will find abundance in Him as you walk the path of the broken way to communion with Him.

Oh Gracious Father, make my heart pliable and soft, meet me in my brokenness. Lord, I long to know more of You in communion with You. Lead my heart to say with the Psalmist, “Whom have I in heaven but you? And earth has nothing I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.”(Psalm 73:25-26) Let it be so, Amen.




9 thoughts on “Communion

  1. So many times, the scriptures that we share with one another are so in tune that it is like God is definitely speaking through the blog shares. I’ve read so many yesterday, and now yours that seem to be on the same vein. I commune, but then it seems I listen to the wrong voice, the one that puts the doubt in my head. I’m working on the doubts and the trusting more. I just read one that reinforced the fact that I could definitely pray for myself so I have. Prayers to trust him more. I commune each morning, but then sometimes I don’t listen. I am the same, as you say, I resist. I suppose he knows that is the human in us. Loved your sharing, and enjoyed reading your insightful post. 🙂

    Peabea@Peabea Scribbles


  2. Cheryl – I love the way Ann describes and compares communion to the union between a man and wife… I hadn’t thought about communion in that way before, and I especially liked that you gave the definition of the word communion – such a great thing to be pondering today especially since we just took communion today at church. Thank you for linking up this week at #TuneInThursday


  3. Such a profound piece, Cheryl, and one so important for me. I knew after reading the first few paragraphs that I was supposed to be here. Your words, with God’s Word as the foundation, shouted what I needed to hear, to see, to be, to do. You built word upon word, tying them all together so beautifully. Thank you. I am blessed. I want to write the Scriptures in my journal together as a package for future pondering.


    1. I am glad that this touched your heart. The Lord always knows exactly what we need. He uses His Word to satisfy the deepest needs of our hearts in such amazing ways. Thank you for your kind words. May your soul be refreshed in the hope of God’s Truth’s.


  4. I too loved the definitions of commune and how it gives a picture of how we should “talk” with our heavenly Father. He longs for us to spend time with him and it doesn’t just have to be about the good stuff of our lives.


    1. Thank you for stopping by. Yes, He loves us through it all. He listens to our hearts, when we don’t speak the words to Him. He knows. We just miss out on the communing when we don’t run to Him. May your soul be refreshed as you pour out your heart in communing with Him.


  5. This was very encouraging. I love the definition of communion you shared … to “share one’s intimate thoughts or feelings with (someone) especially on a spiritual level.” It goes on to say that”the purpose of praying is to commune with God”
    It’s so beautiful that we can come to Him in our brokenness and know we will never overburden Him when we cry out. We can commune with Him in a way we can never do with people. In communion He satisfies our souls.

    Glad I stopped by!


    1. I am so glad that you stopped by too. He holds us in the fullness of His love through all of our brokenness and only desires deeper and deeper intimacy with us. That is so beautiful! We are so blessed to have such a gracious Father. May your soul be refreshed as you commune with the Lover of your soul.


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