The parable of the lost coin is found in Luke 15:8-10. Jesus tells this parable to illustrate another facet of God’s grace. Jesus explains that a woman loses a coin in her home. You may think it must be very valuable to matter so much. And it was to her.
I remember, a few years back, my diamond fell out of my wedding ring and I didn’t realize that it had happened. I was so upset and frantic to find it once I realized it was missing. I thought it would be nearly impossible, but I found it in the carpet in our living room. I can’t tell you how happy and relieved I was. It turns out that the prongs that were to hold it in had gotten broken somehow.
Commentators explain that the coin the woman lost was really only valued at about 16 cents. But it had real value for a different reason. According to ancient customs, a married woman would take the money she had accumulated through her life and sew it in a headdress that she wore on her wedding day, The coins represented all she had contributed to her marriage. So, when this woman realized that one of the coins had fallen out, she, too, was frantic to find it, just as I was regarding my diamond.
It is suggested by some commentators that the purpose of this parable may be to lead us to consider if we ourselves have someone who is lost in our home. Is there someone going through the motions of religion? Or maybe one who just goes to church or Sunday school, but has not come to know the Lord in a personal way. Or maybe there is someone who adamantly refuses to go to church or even listen to anything about God. These lost people are precious to the Lord, just as they are precious to us.
Jesus wants us to be aware of the lost and to be as diligent in finding them and helping them as the woman was in finding her lost coin. All have great value in the Lord’s eyes. We need to talk with those in our homes and gain a good understanding of where they are at spiritually.
Transparency and authenticity are important in helping others to see Christ. We need to be real as we talk about the truth of our own sinfulness and be open about seeking forgiveness from those we have wronged as well as confessing our sinfulness to the Lord. We need to share the reality of God’s grace to us as sinners.
Our attitude needs to be one of humility as we share. It is all about Jesus. No one is drawn to the realness of a loving, gracious Savior by a prideful attitude that says “I’m better than you.” Our salvation had nothing to do with what we have done, but is all about what Jesus has done for us, taking our place on the cross.
Sometimes, we come to a place where words only cause arguments, and any situation that brings Jesus to the forefront causes animosity in our loved ones. It is in those cases that prayer becomes even more important. When we feel that all doors of opportunity are shut off to us, we still always have hope in what the Lord might do. So we must pray for the Lord to lead us in wisdom to know when to share and to know how not to be nagging. We need to ask Him to be at work in the heart of our loved one.
We also need the Lord to help us to learn how to demonstrate love and compassion as Jesus did. It can be difficult, and frustration can fill us, but we must hold tight to our hope in Christ. The Lord can work in the hearts in ways that we cannot even imagine. He looks into the depths of our hearts and knows where we are in our relationship with Him. He knows what needs to change within us and what needs to change in the hearts of our loved ones. He is able to take hearts of stone and replace them with hearts of flesh. Prayer needs to be our lifeline, through the struggle, disappointment, and frustration as we wait for that lost one to be drawn to faith.
The parable of the lost coin shows us a woman who doesn’t give up but is persistent in making the lost to be found. Let’s strive to have our determination match hers. And when that one is found in faith, let’s rejoice with heaven, let’s praise the Lord for His amazing grace to each one of us.