The Unforced Rhythms of Grace

“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me- watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.”

Matthew 11:28-30 MSG

What do you know about grace?

Have you ever thought about the phrase “learn the unforced rhythm of grace? ”

I have been giving a lot of thought to recalibrating my life and those words from that verse have intrigued me. It sounds light, easy, peaceful, and restful. It sounds, quite honestly, like just exactly what I need. How about you?

Life can get messy, busy, difficult, painful, and overwhelming. And in the midst of it you grow exhausted and needy. You may come to recognize your own fragility.

Ok, it is not like I haven’t been in this place before, similar feelings brought on by different situations. I have found myself needy and fragile in the past. But my response to it often was one of choosing to keep pushing through. I did not want to give into it. I wanted to stand strong even though I felt as though I would crumple into a heap at any moment.

This time I am realizing my neediness is a place to invite in God’s grace. He is waiting for me to do just that each time I get to this place. He wants me to learn the unforced rhythms of His grace.

Grace. It is about Him, actually the word describes so much of who He is. It is about His love. It is about His presence and His going with me. It is not about me trying to do anything on my own. It is about connection, the connection of my abiding in Him. It is about me trusting Him. Doesn’t it seem like it always comes back to that word trust?

I have to trust Him enough to allow Him to show me the way through, to guide me in a gentle way. And in that He helps me to know that I am not all alone. His presence, His grace help me to know I do not have to go it alone, the pressure is off. I can stop, I can cry. I can say, “I’m tired.” I can be real and vulnerable.

The rhythm, the cadence of His sure-footedness is steady. Not racing or rushing. Just moving me forward. He isn’t forcing me or pushing me. He isn’t dragging me along unwillingly, He is by my side, always with me.

It has become so vivid to me now. His grace, His love are always here. He is with me. He has been with me, but I have been walking way too fast, super-focused on the mission at hand, pressing on to get my own way. And I have missed the tenderness of His gracious presence.

This time I see it, I feel it, I truly am learning of the unforced rhythms of His grace. His grace is for me all of the time.

Yes, we learn about grace mostly from the cross, but I am realizing my depth of neediness for tender grace in all of life. I am looking for it more and more as I walk through the rough spots in life.

How about you, is your life making you aware of your neediness, specifically your need for His tender grace?

The picture this verse gives talks about “yoke.”  A yoke we may be slightly familiar with is the yoke placed on two oxen at work. The stronger one showing the way to the weaker one. This gives us a picture of guidance, and helping to carry the weight.

Yoke here also speaks of the yoke of a rabbi, the yoke if a rabbi was his teachings, and if you chose to follow him it was said that you came under his yoke. This is another helpful picture. When we come to follow Jesus we come under the yoke of His teachings. Jesus’ yoke of teaching isn’t heavy or ill-fitting. That is to say it isn’t filled with expectation and obligation to fulfill the law on our own. Jesus has fulfilled it for us through His work on the cross. Now as we take on His yoke He walks with us through life gently leading us in His perfect way. He takes off the heavy yoke of sin that weighs us down and leads on the paths of righteousness.

I can stop striving under His yoke, I have nothing to prove. He knows my true nature and apart from Him I can do nothing. As I trust Him and walk in His yoke I can rest when I stop fighting for my way, or struggling to make it under the weight of my life’s burdens. You see He carries the burdens for us. And ahhh, yes, with the weight of sin and striving lifted we can rest in the saving grace He provides. True rest.

Abandoning control. Choosing His yoke. Choosing the way of trust. I am not good at this. In fact, I often struggle and strive to have my own way. And I choose the yoke of sin and the burden is heavy and I have to once again come to the place of realizing I can’t do it. I need Jesus. I need His tender grace and I need the rest I find in Him.

His yoke is easy when I choose to trust His heart and walk in His way.  His love calls us, “Come to me,” will you run to Him or find your own way?  I have run my own way too often but His grace definitely is the better way. It is there that we can find rest.

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8 thoughts on “The Unforced Rhythms of Grace

  1. I have never heard the phrase “learn the unforced rhythm of grace” before, but I love it! Allowing grace into our lives is easy, but really living it is hard. Believing it under any circumstances does not come easily to me. I struggle, I doubt, I resist. Then I remember, God’s grace is here for us all. Abundant and everlasting, and I can relax into this grace.

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  2. Reading your blog post came at just the right time for me! You have given me the perspective that I needed. I have one more day to go through when an extremely busy and overwhelming time of my life will finally be over. (I have been covering for a co-worker working full time along with my own part-time job in the same office that is also in a busy season, along with that family and church obligations abounded along with some physical ailments.) I found myself repeating the verse you shared over and over to myself the other day. Your words and insights brought clarity to what my heart was struggling with.

    I sooo needed this reminder that God’s grace is always with me and that the yoke He speaks of is that He is on the other side.

    Thank you so much for sharing!

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    1. Sometimes, I think the rhythm of grace requires us to stop and lean in instead of pushing through, to really feel the rhythm of the grace and let it move through us. Great reminders.

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  3. Great post Cheryl, I too have come into that place of accepting the rhythm of His grace & it is so freeing, comforting & serene…
    It took a lot for God to get me to this place but I am so glad He has 😀 is about surrender too 😉
    Blessings,
    Jennifer

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  4. The unforced rhythms of grace.. LOVE that translation! ESV, I think? This is so beautifully written! I long to find this kind of rhythm in my daily walk with the Lord. Unforced, natural, easy, restful.. What’s more, is that I know He wants that for me too! Thank you for sharing your wisdom here today!

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  5. Yes, the unforced rhythms of grace are found in surrendering through the daily messes of life. Learning to give myself fully to the safety of being yoked to Him as I trust His perfect love! Thank you for this, Cheryl!

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